The Gratuitous Promise

The Gratuitous Promise: not worth anything, but I'm making it anyway!.........My thoughts as a stay-at-home mom turned law student, who just passed the California bar exam.

Tuesday, May 30, 2006

Yeah, I passed and improved!

Today has been a crazy day. I had to work this morning (at Small Claims), then come home and take my daughter to graduation (she had to be there early) and save seats for 12 people by myself (while getting nasty stares and comments- but what do I care? I didn't wait an hour in the sun to let someone else take them!) Since she was one of the only 12 summa cum laude graduates in a class of over 600 students, she was introduced when she entered, along with mentioning that she will be attending MIT and majoring in Math and Physics. :) (Yes, that is the stuff proud moms live for!) Then she and her 11 "summas" got to sit on the stage for the entire ceremony.

Afterward, we took her and some of my family out for dinner. We didn't get home until nearly 9pm, and I just now got home from taking her to the all night grad party. (Thank goodness my mom volunteered to pick her up at 4am!)

I knew ahead of time that grades were to be posted at 5pm today. When I got home after working, I checked the website and it had a notice that it was being updated. Hmmmm.....slight hope that I would find out my grades before graduation. I checked again about a half hour later, and grades were there!

I passed easily. I'm not really surprised by that. I improved my grades over my December midterm grades in 3 of my 4 classes, improved my overall GPA, and raised my lowest score (CivPro) out of the 60s. I had been ranked 6th in the class as of December, however, doubt I maintained that ranking. I don't know my current ranking and probably won't find that out until next week.

This morning I worked with one of the graduating law school students. His comment was that grades generally go down from your midterm scores. I certainly felt like all my grades would go down, so I was surprised when they were up. But, I'm sure everyone else probably improved MORE than I did, so my ranking probably dropped. At this point, who cares? I passed and have a great GPA. And while I'm happy and proud of that, I'm more proud of my daughter, her accomplishments, and all I know she is yet to achieve.

GRADES ARE ONLINE!

NOW.......will write more later, but I passed! :)

Monday, May 29, 2006

Tomorrow is THE day

Grades will be posted online tomorrow after 5pm. Of course, my daughter is graduating at that exact time, so I probably won't be able to check until after 9. I expect to pass, but I don't think I will match my December midterm grades, except possibly in Torts. I am positive that Contracts will be lower, and have no idea about CivPro. My Legal Analysis grade will be higher than December's because all my papers were in the 90-99 range, and I don't think my final paper could drop my grade below an 85.

I hate waiting weeks to find out my grades. When I was in college, I always gave my professors a stamped self-addressed postcard, and had them mail my grades to me so I didn't have to wait to get my report card to find out. Since we do things by PINs here, which are supposedly "secret" (I KNOW at least one of my professors knows my number because of her comments on my papers!), I know they wouldn't do stuff like that. After this long, I can't remember much of anything about the exams, what I wrote, what I forgot. And at this point, I don't even care. Just give me the numbers!

I'm going to be busy this week. I need to do all the buying, cooking, cleaning and stuff for my daughter's party on Saturday. Plus, I'm working Tuesday and Thursday mornings. I also need to register for my summer school classes Thursday afternoon. Not sure how much I'll have time to post this week, but I'll definitely post after finding out my grades!

Saturday, May 27, 2006

Cool Cats

Hubby and I took a little trip to visit some cats today at the Sierra Endangered Cat Haven. It is only about an hour drive from town, and with the nice weather today, it was the perfect time to make a visit there. Here's a couple photos of the beautiful cats that hubby took:




























The walking tour takes about an hour, and the guide was very knowledgeable and friendly. They have Bengal tigers, several different types of leopards, and other large cats.

As a cat lover, I enjoyed seeing the cats here. If you want to take a nice drive through the foothills and a short hike while enjoying some wild cats, I recommend following the link above to find out how to visit.

Here is one of my cats, thinking she belongs there too:

Thursday, May 25, 2006

"Working"

I had my shift in the Small Claims Advisory office for one of my regular shifts this morning. When I had my training on Tuesday, the tiny office held the regular afternoon guy (RAG for short), another first year (who already had his day of training), and me. Since there are only 2 desks and 2 phones, I got to sit and listen in and watch that day. Today was just the normal morning shift guy (for Thurdays anyway- NMSG for short) and me, so I got to take a desk and phone and take a few clients.

At first, I was feeling pretty nervous, because there is such a range of questions you can get asked, and there is NO way I know how to answer more than just the basic stuff. Luckily, my first couple calls were so basic ("what do I do to get a security deposit back?" and "when can I come to the office to have help filling out my forms?") that I was able to sound like I have been doing this for years. One lady even wanted to make sure she saw me when she came in this afternoon, and was disappointed when I told her my shift ended at noon. I did reassure her that RAG has been here many years and would be very helpful. Of course, nothing like someone wanting ME to help them to give me a shot of confidence.

NMSG is really nice and made it really easy for me to feel comfortable. I'm glad I will be working with him on Thursdays and hope he will still be there for awhile. (He's already done this for over a year.)

It felt weird to drive to "work" this morning in rush hour traffic.....something I haven't done in over 10 years. The traffic really wasn't all that bad. It took me about 10 minutes to get to the freeway, 10 minutes on the freeway, and another 10 minutes from the freeway to get parked and up to the office. The worst part is just finding a parking spot! At least now I know of some spots in which I can park.

I think I'm really going to like this. Even answering basic questions made me feel good that I could help someone. And believe it or not, I think I'm actually a very compassionate listener (not sure I believe it most of the time). The people mostly just want someone to hear their story, and even if I don't know all the answers, I'm always happy to listen (and find out what they need to know for them).

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

Dinner for 42 people

That's what I'm making next Saturday night, otherwise known as my daughter's graduation party. While my dear mother is graced with the gift of hospitality and loves to entertain, I did not receive any of that gene. Getting dinner on the table for my own family is a struggle enough! I had originally planned on hiring a caterer to do it, but once the reality of the MIT price tag set it, I figured I should find a way to do it myself. How hard could it be???

I did the easy stuff first. I rented the tables, chairs and tablecloths, and bought all the plates, cups and napkins. I had my mom help me decide on a menu. The harder stuff I have yet to tackle. I'm trying to decide on centerpieces. Since we're going to be eating outside, and we don't have any yard lights, I need to have candles on the tables. I am NOT creative and do not instinctively have an abundance of ideas of how to arrange things to make something pretty. I finally came up with an idea yesterday to put 3 tower style white candles on gold chargers (large plates, which I already own) and put flowers of some sort in between the candles. Yeah, it sounds kind of lame, but I tried it out today with some roses from my yard, and it looked ok. I think I will have some white roses next week when the party is held, but if not, I can check my mom's yard and see what I can get. I have the view of the lake to distract people though, so maybe they won't pay attention to my sorry little centerpieces.

Then the hardest. The food. Ugh. Anyway, I need to get all the actual recipes and make up a shopping list, and make a time table of when I need to make what. Thank goodness my mom is eager to help! Hubby also has that week off, so he will be put to work too! Next week I will be probably working the entire week to attempt to pull this off. I envy people who entertain with ease. Not that I want to have people over all the time, but maybe I would at least do it once in a while if it didn't freak me out and overwhelm me so much.



Why am I doing all this? For my daughter. Because I love her and am SO proud of her and want to celebrate her with friends and family. Yeah, I'll do just about anything for my kids. That's what moms do. Here's a picture of her from a few years ago. Yes, this is my MIT genius!

Sunday, May 21, 2006

Does this mean I passed?

I saw my Legal Analysis professor this morning, and told her that I had talked to another student about the Small Claims Advisory that she runs, and the training I had for it on Friday. When I mentioned he might also be interested in it, she made the comment that she had not checked the grades for any other first year students. Quickly digesting the meaning, I asked her, "So, does that mean that I DID pass???" It seemed like it caught her off guard, and she paused a second then said, "I think you passing is a good bet."

It seemed like her first comment meant that she knew the other first year student and I who did the training last week passed because she had checked our grades. I had thought the professors didn't have to turn in their grades until May 30, so on one hand I would be surprised if she was able to check any grades, as I'm not sure they are even done yet. But on the other hand, she surely could have requested our tests be graded first, or at least gotten the other professors to look at our tests and make sure they were at least 65 level.

It makes sense that she would want to make sure anyone who was going to start working BEFORE grades are even posted would be eligible to do so (by being a passing student). I guess it's silly to try to analyze a possible "slip" by the professor because I don't seriously doubt that I passed. I'm just anxious to know for sure and know exactly what my grades were. Only 9 more days....

Saturday, May 20, 2006

NAMI Walk

The 2nd Annual Fresno NAMI Walk was this morning at Woodward Park. What a great day for it! Absolutely perfect weather! I participated last year also, and it is so nice to see SO many people come out for this event. It's a lot of fun and they have a lot of different activities going on there.

Both years now I have run into someone that I haven't seen for years. This time, it was a lady (who was friends with my mom) and her daughter (whose sister and I were best friends for a while in high school). It's always nice to see people from your past like that. But what was funny was that the daughter is married to the SBA president of my law school (for the last year)! I knew who he was, and thought I had talked to him before (know I have emailed him), but it was cool to be able to talk to him for a few minutes too. Nice to know another law student gives their time to this worthy cause.

In other news, I went to the Alan Jackson concert at Table Mountain Casino last night. I had never been to a show there, so wasn't sure how it was set up or how big it was. It was really pretty small. I'm guessing about 1000-1200 seats only. We were in row X, which was the second to the last row (not counting the general seating in the small bleacher section), and even though the floor was flat (not lowered towards the stage), we could see really well.

This was the 4th concert of his we've been to over the years. This seemed to be a slightly different type of crowd. I'm wondering if the Casino's club members got preference in buying tickets, because my hubby was online the second they went and sale, and we barely got a seat, and the people around us were generally older, and not looking like they were too internet savvy (if there can be a look for that!). Kind of odd. Anyway, it was a fun concert and loved seeing and hearing Alan again! Nice to have him come so close by! :)

Guess that's it for now!

Friday, May 19, 2006

Started my Clinical Units

I had a training session this morning for working in the Small Claims Advisory, and those hours counted toward my clinical hours. I need 72 hours for each 1 unit of credit, and a total of 4 clinical units, though they can't all be done in the same place. My second training will be Tuesday afternoon, and then I will start on Thursday. Because I have the time and they have the openings, I'm going to do 2 shifts a week, for 8 hours total a week. This is nice, because it will give me 72 hours, or one unit of credit, by the end of July. If I stick with the 2 shifts even after school starts, I will have the second unit done by the end of Sept., and the third by the end of the semester. I'm not sure if I will be able to continue the second shift, but even if I only do the one a week, I'll still get in my second unit of credit before December midterms.

The 3 year plan, which I am planning on doing, calls for 2 units of clinicals each summer. However, if I do this, I can get in 3 units before next summer starts and just look for a place to get the last 1 unit/72 hours in next summer.

This is going to mean a pretty crazy June, as I will be taking classes Monday and Wednesday nights, working Small Claims Tuesday and Thursday mornings, and then going to class those afternoons. But it will help me knock off a bunch of units pretty quickly, which should help the stress level for the second year some.

While at school, I noticed that some grades were posted on the board, however, no first year classes. And, while there were a list of grades, there were no PIN numbers next to them, so I'm not sure why they were even posted. I guess you could see if everyone passed, so you could at least know that, but seems kind of silly to me. Also, I had heard before that the grades would be online on May 31st, but found out they will be online after 5pm on the 30th. Of course, that is the exact time of my daughter's graduation, so it will probably be the last thing on my mind right then.

Anyway, I think the Small Claims service will be interesting. I'm dying to get involved and do SOMETHING, so this seems like a pretty low key way to do it. I'm looking forward to getting started with it and working my way through those hours!

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Nothing quite like being a proud parent

Last night my daughter's school had their academic award night. It was nearly 3 hours long, so there were plenty of students who were acknowedged for their accomplishments. Before going, we knew my daughter was getting an award from the Math department, for being a summa cum laude valedictorian, and CSF lifetime member. But she got a couple more that were surprises. She was also given an award from the social science department. (Meaning, history, which is funny because she hates it so. She got a 5 on her US History AP test last year, so she is assuming that is why she got it.) She also got a small scholarship for being an excellenct science student, was one of the B of A plaque winners, and one of the AP scholars.

They did a video of all the valedictorians at the beginning of the program, showing a baby picture, their senior picture, with their name and the college they would be attending. To see her beautiful picture up there, with her name, and "Massachusetts Institute of Technology" beneath it made it just a little too real. I'm so incredibly proud of her, yet, I can't believe she is really going so far away. On her own. Without me......

Anyway, the top tier of valedictorians, the summa cum laude group, those with a GPA of 4.32 (meaning straight As all through high school and taking the max number of AP classes), had 12 members. It also made me incredibly proud that 4 of those 12 were my daughter and her 3 best friends. How awesome that they have been able to become friends, and strive with each other for excellence. What an incredible group of girls she is friends with! I'm proud of all of them, and that she has them for friends.

It was nice that for the valedictorians, when they gave them their certificates/CSF pins/summa cum laude plaques, they also reiterated their colleges, and also told their majors and intended careers. It was fun to see the wide variety of interests represented there. There was one boy who was going to Univ. of Penn., which is ranked 4th in the country, but not many going out of state at all. A lot going to UC schools, and of course to Fresno State and City. Certainly my daughter going to MIT (ranked #7) was one of the big accomplishments for the senior class. It seemed like people were very impressed by her going there, and double majoring in math and physics. I know I'm impressed by her! What amazes me more, is I know that for her, this is only the beginning. There is no telling what she is going to end up doing.

I'm a proud mom. Can you tell????

Monday, May 15, 2006

One of these days, I'm going to sleep in

and just relax all day. But that wasn't today. This morning, I drove hubby all the way up to Belmont to pick up his new car at the dealer there, and then turned around and came home. Does that make me a good wife? I don't know, but I'm a tired one. I hope I make it until 10pm, because I want to watch 24 tonight. (Next week is the 2 hour season finale.)

Saturday, May 13, 2006

For Gwen

I just found out that one of "my ladies" died today. She was one of the ladies I visited with the shut in visitation ministry I started at church. She wasn't just one of them, she was one of my favorites. Gwen wasn't that old (she was only in her 60s), but she had advanced lung disease, and was on oxygen and was not able to do much since lack of oxygen restricted her energy severely. She lived alone in a tiny, crowded apartment in an old building. She had every reason to be bitter and angry. But Gwen was anything but that. She was the most grateful, thankful person I have met in my entire life. She considered everything in her life a gift from Jesus, and it was all she could do to thank Him for it constantly.

While our visits were meant to be an encouragement and outreach to shut in women of the church that we visited, our time with Gwen always seemed to be more of a blessing to US! We came away from her place, in awe of her, and her attitude. She was someone who had and could do so little, yet with the way she spoke about God's many blessings to her, you would think she was the queen. This woman spent her time and energy praising God and sharing Him with everyone she came in contact with. She truly was an amazing woman, and one I admire and was blessed to know. I'm sad that I will never get to visit her here again, but I know with certainty where she is tonight. She is praising God with no restrictions, and I can see that beautiful smile of hers. Gwen, I love you! I'm going to miss you, sweet lady!

A Seinfeld-esque Problem

If you're a Seinfeld fan, you probably remember the episode with the close talker, and the other one with the lady who insisted on giving the "kiss hello". I'm in a situation somewhere in between the two. I know someone (female) who insists on giving hello and goodbye hugs. Now, I'm not really the "huggy" type. I normally have no problem indulging those who are, but I usually don't hug just for my own benefit.

Anyway, if this woman was just hugging, it wouldn't be an issue. But, it isn't a normal hug, which would be something where the person would let go of you about a split second after their arm had gone around you to complete the hug. No, this hug lasts. You know how fast most hugs are? Well, her hugs are probably about 5 seconds long, but because it is abnormal, it feels like she is holding you captive for about an hour. And then, as if that wasn't bad enough, she squeezes you, TIGHT. That is just freaky. I'm not her relative, or her girlfriend. I just know her through someone else. She has no reason to miss me or in any other way have a need to hold me.

I post all of this in a lighthearted, Seinfeld kind of way, but really, this bugs the crap out of me. I don't want to offend her, or the person I know her through by saying anything. Nor do I want to sound petty by bringing it up. (And blogging etiquette allows me to post any and all gripes I have without sounding petty. See Etiquette of Blogging 24(f).) But really, I feel like everytime I see her I'm going to have to be carrying something or somehow make myself "unhuggable". I chuckle because it reminds me of Jerry hiding behind his refrigerator door to avoid Wendy, the hello kisser.

I did try this strategy earlier this week, and it did seem to work. She didn't hug me, but others (not blocking the hug by carrying something) did get the hug. Is it possible she got the message, or am I going to have to prepare for a "block" every time I see her?

Just a Reminder...

I will be walking in the NAMI Walk next Saturday at this time. If you are interested, here is more information or how to sponsor me.

I would be thrilled to have sponsors and/or others join me for the walk. Please email me if you would like more information on how to do either!

Looks like it's going to be a beautiful weekend. Enjoy this first weekend with no studying!

Thursday, May 11, 2006

First year of Law School- Part 4: Study Groups

Another mystery to the beginning first year law student is the study group. Everyone tells you how important they are, but you aren't really told what you are supposed to do with them, or even how to pick one. I did hear somewhere along the way that it was better if you weren't friends with people you study with, as you would get more done that way. I didn't know anyone in my class prior to school starting, so it didn't seem to matter one way or another to start with.

Different groups do different things. Some get together to discuss the cases. Some share briefing responsibilities. Others go over class material or take practice tests together. It's more a matter of figuring out what helps you to learn the material the best and for what activity you find a group helpful.

Somehow, I ended up in a group. It was a totally happenstance thing. The lady who kind of got us all together then dropped out of our group, and 4 of us were left together. There were plusses and minuses with our group. We decided early on to do joint outlines, in other words, we had one outline for each subject, that we all contributed to and then shared. The positive thing was that you got a lot of input on each topic, so if you didn't really understand one area or have much on it in your personal notes, you could benefit from others in the group who did. The problem with this was that all of us had different styles and preferences. At first, when we were still struggling with just trying to understand everything and get the whole law school thing, it wasn't so bad. But after awhile, our individual differences showed more and more. It wasn't so much a matter of people doing things that were "good" or "bad", but just differences of opinion. We got to a point where there was more effort being put out to try to accomodate all the differences than to studying and learning.

It became clear to me that the drama over all of this struggling was going to be detrimental to everyone in the group. It was going to be better for everyone not to try to continue in our group. Once it was decided, I actually felt much better going into finals. I don't have any issues with my former study group members, and think they are all brilliant people. It just seems that some combinations of people and their different styles don't work well together all the time, particularly in times of stress.

I suppose this experience has tainted my view of study groups somewhat. I think for the first year it was important to be in one to help digest all the learning. But, when you're thrown into a group not knowing anything about anyone in the group, it seems obvious that the chances you will work well together in the long run are small. I'm proud of my group that we did so well for so long. We did finish the first semester with all 4 of us ranked in the top 10 of the class. Together, I think we all lifted each other up.

I feel fortunate to have found another study partner that I think is a better complement to how I study and work. We had invited him to join our group after midterms, and I think having him as a part helped me to see things more clearly. In my opinion, studying with someone you consider a friend IS better, because it is more likely that you can be honest, be yourself, and getting along won't be an issue. Of course, you still need to find someone who learns in the same way you do, or at least one that will accomodate how you study. Finding that combination (friend and someone with similar study style) seems to be the ideal. At least that seems to be the opinion of this in-between-first-and-second-year-law-student.

Rants

A little break from my law school observations from 1st year.....

First of all, what the heck happened to spring? It was cold all of March and April, and now we are in the 90s! I just ran out to do an errand, and when I got back in my car, the thermometer read 116! Now, it was probably only about 94 (the temp gets a higher reading if I'm parked in the sun for awhile), but still. What happened a month of temperatures in the 70s and 80s? It's almost useless to have a convertible here. It's always either too hot or too cold to put the top down!

Secondly, what is going on with American Idol? Not that I like the kind of music Chris sings, but he seemed to be the most talented and marketable. I don't understand why Katherine is still there. In my opinion, she is so blah and personality-less. She should have been the one kicked off last night. Taylor, while he has a good voice, is more about personality. But I have to wonder about him. Does he really think he's a good dancer? Dude, take some lessons! You have the energy, but get it channeled in a more fashionable way! I can take or leave Elliot really. He has a great voice, but almost seems too humble. I guess I like a little bit of attitude.

Finally, why am I so tired NOW? I made it through finals fine, yet now that I have nothing to do (not exactly true, but at least school-wise), I'm exhausted and have no energy. Maybe it's the heat, especially since it came on so quickly. Or maybe it's just that the adrenaline has finally stopped flowing. Whatever it is, just UGH! I have too many things I need to get done before summer school starts to be this tired.

Ok, that's it for now. Watch for my study group post later tonight or tomorrow.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

First year of Law School- Part 3: Scare Tactics

The first week of law school was an orientation for first years. One evening was spent with then new 2nd years telling us how horribly hard law school is. They never saw their families, they spent 8 hours a day on weekends with their study groups, they spent 20 hours or more writing each paper, etc. They made it sound like we were idiots for even being there. They made me go home and question why I had decided to go to law school. But the longer I went, the more I realized that the "scare tactics" were but part of the game. If you get freaked out by talk, how will you react to actual work? If you're like me, you'd RATHER just work, because you know your work will prove your value. Once I got to the point of turning in a paper, and getting that feedback, I knew there was nothing for me to be worried about. Sure, I may fret some over my perceived ill performance on a test here and there, but confidence in myself and my schoolwork has never been a weak point of mine. It just was the matter of realizing that I wasn't going to let anyone pull any mind games on me.

Not that it's not a lot of work, or a lot to learn. It is. But that doesn't scare me. I enjoy that kind of challenge. I guess I didn't realize that they would try to weed some of us out before we really even got started.

Other than the "non-pep talk" we got from second years, there was all this mysterious talk about briefs and outlines. Everyone talks about them like we were supposed to know what the heck they were referring to. I suppose if you know another law student, you would, maybe. I didn't. I had taken one business law class when working on my business degree years ago, and I vaguely remember doing briefs for that, but I honestly couldn't tell you what they consisted of.

In plain language, a brief is just a summary of a case from one of your casebooks (text books). It contains the pertinent information (who were the parties, what was the issue, rule of law, decision, etc.) about the case, to help you remember it and enable you to discuss it in class. Apparently, in some schools, briefing is more important than at my school. First of all, only 1 of my 3 substantive law class professors really called on people to brief cases in class. (I would have never shown up to class without all the cases for her class briefed.) Secondly, my school focuses on black letter law, so it's not like you have to read the cases and try to figure out the law yourself. The professor is going to tell you what you need to take from each case. Not that you shouldn't brief the cases, but it's not like you won't understand the law if you don't. To me, briefing the cases was more about learning to read the cases, and understand the elements in them. Lesson: don't be afraid of briefing cases. Think of them as just a summary. If your professor doesn't give you a format to use, there are plenty online sources to give you some help.

Outlines were even more mysterious than the briefs. At least the professors gave us samples of how to do briefs. What the heck were all the outlines everyone kept referring to? (It seems to be a way of life in law school to talk about something without ever really explaining the basics. I think it is just something else to get used to. Just think, we can do it to the first years in August!)

Anyway, I like to think of outlines as your own personal textbook for each class that you create from your notes. The casebooks are not really designed to help you study for exams. They just give you cases from which you can pull the applicable laws and principles. You need a format to save all of these to study from. Thus, the outline! Some people use their laptops to take notes in class, others, like me, take handwritten notes. I would type in my class notes every night into an ongoing overall outline for each class. Personally, I think rereading my notes and typing them in reaffirmed what I had just learned. (An extra step in the learning process over just using the laptop in my class.) However, the notes from class are not particularly organized. At the beginning of the year, my study group made a decision to create joint outlines, which we all contributed to. These outlines were done in an exam flow structure, to aid in approaching exam questions. (I will address study groups in a separate post later.) Really though, you need to figure out what kind of format works for you.....how do you learn? what helps you memorize? what do you need to see/not see? do you prefer full descriptions or elements? That kind of thing. You need to work on this outline AS YOU GO THROUGH THE YEAR so that you aren't overwhelmed with creating it at the end, and then trying to study from it at the same time. It's hard at the beginning, because you have no idea about anything. After a couple months though, you can start to figure out some of it and put some of it together. Then you just keep adding to it and modifying it.

I think my outlines for my classes this year ranged from about 30-45 pages per class. If you think of that as your book for the year, it doesn't seem too long. However, if you think, more realistically, of it as what you need to have memorized, it becomes a little more scary. But, putting them together is not all that hard, AS LONG AS YOU DO IT ALONG THE WAY AND TAKE DECENT NOTES IN CLASS. Don't think you can pick up a generic outline on the internet and use it. Most of the professors seems to have preferred ways of wording things. You're going to be much better off taking notes and constructing an outline of the class if you use the format and wording they use. (I will talk more about outlines in the post on study groups.)

In the end it comes down to the fact that you will have to learn a lot, but nothing is really beyond you or your capabilities. (You got into law school, didn't you?) You just have to keep telling yourself that and not let them or the system get to you. Realize that part of the game is to weed out the weakest, so just don't let the scare tactics work on you. It's really not that hard once you get the hang of it. It's just a lot of work.

First year of Law School- Part 2: Preparation and Support

I think being organized is a key to being successful in law school. And obviously, the more you are responsible for, the more organized you need to be. I didn't relinquish any of my stay-at-home mom duties once I started school. Hubby works out of town anyway, so it's not like he could have done more. It was up to me to make sure things still ran smoothly around the house and with the kids.

Mostly, that meant going to Costco and/or Sam's Club every couple of weeks and stocking up on everything and anything to avoid having to make repeated trips to the store, especially when someone runs out of something. I have some shelves in my garage dedicated to storing extra cases of bottled water, soda, paper towels, laundry soap, cat litter, etc., and a closet inside that has all kinds of bathroom/toiletry items. I always keep enough supplies that I didn't have to make emergency runs to the store. If you hit the big stores during the week and in the morning, you can usually get in and out pretty quickly. Since I hate shopping anyway, using the stock-up method helped me save time and frustration through the entire year.

Since our schedule is so crazy and varied with hubby working out of town all week, daughter having 2 night classes, and son volunteering at church, I was happy to accept my parent's invitation for a weekly dinner for the kids and I. Every Thursday after class, we went over and had dinner with them. More than just the meal, it was a nice way to make sure I was still spending some time with my family.

The stocking up and the once a week meals with my family were two things that helped me throughout the year. It made my weeks a little less stressful and helped me devote more time to my studies. Things that you can do to help you keep your focus and save time are big keys to making your first year a little more bearable.

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

First year of Law School- Part 1: Balance

I figured there are going to be various topics I'm going to want to comment on. I personally HATE reading blog entries that go on and on. If you can't say it in a few short paragraphs, I won't read it. I try to keep my entries to the length I know I personally would read if they were posted elsewhere. So, I will be dividing up my summary of the year over a few days and posts.

My first topic is balance. The idea of a law school student have a balanced life is probably not something many people have considered. Even though I was committed to doing my best in school, I would not let it come at the expense of my family, or other commitments I have. It wasn't going to be worth it to me if it did. I'm happy to report that I still managed to spend time with my husband, children and family, as well as stay involved in the Bible study I've been involved with for 6 years, while continuing to serve there in a volunteer position as well. Though I did not think I would be able to travel as much as we are used to, I still was able to get in 5 trips during the school year, which I find amazing. (Went to Hawaii over Thanksgiving with hubby for our 10th anniversary, took the kids to SF after Christmas, went with hubby to Vegas for his birthday in February, took my daughter to Boston for MIT's campus preview weekend in April and we all went to Disneyland over Easter break to celebrate her 18th birthday.) The trips were shorter than I would have ideally liked, but I still managed to travel WHILE IN LAW SCHOOL.

Because I have the luxury of not having to work, I attended afternoon classes. I normally used my mornings to read, brief and study. After class, I would use some of the evenings to type in my class notes. I honestly do not like working after 8pm, so I rarely did. I usually spent the remainder of the evenings relaxing with hubby and/or kids. On weekends, I ended up working on papers or catching up on any work I didn't finish during the week. I tried to always make sure I didn't work the entire weekend and spent some time with my family.

During the orientation week at school, one of the things said to us by a then beginning second year student was that he didn't see his kids the previous year. While I'm sure it was an exaggeration (or at least I hope it was), all I could think was "how sad". I would not let that be me. Because this is my daughter's last year at home, it was even more important to me. I did not want her last memory of me before going away was that I didn't have time for her. I made an effort to drop what I was working on when she came into my room and wanted to talk.

I wouldn't have done it any other way. I doubt my ranking at the end of the year will be impressive, but it was more important to me to keep things in perspective. And I think I did!

That was BRUTAL!

I knew it would be bad, but I had no idea HOW bad. First of all, the exam was set to start at 6:30pm. Normally the room I take my exams in is the first of 3 that start the tests. Of course, last night, our professor had us start LAST, so our room wasn't to finish until 9:56pm. Since he has to end the other rooms first, he was a few minutes late getting to ours, so we didn't finish until after 10pm. I'm sorry, that that is way tooooo late to have to be thinking clearly and logically.

Secondly, other than the late start and end time, it was just way too much to do. The test consisted, as I knew it would, of 2 essays and 10 short answers. I had planned on doing the essays first, to feel like I had the biggest part behind me before doing the short answers. However, the professor specifically said right before passing out the tests to do the short answers first. I guess I could have ignored him, but what the heck, I'm still a first year who respects her professors, so I listened. However, it totally threw me off because I felt from the start then that my time was going to be messed up and stuff.

Finally, I don't feel like I answered ANYTHING adequately enough, though I felt better about the second essay than anything else. My only hope at this point is that somehow I got an 85 or better on Torts, which could balance out 55s on CivPro and Contracts. I can't even think straight about it now! Since I got an 81 on the December midterm, to get a 55 in the class, I "only" needed to score 47 of 90 points for the final. I want to say I had to have at least done that, but seriously, I was not able to address things the full way they should have been. Time was a huge factor. It was not a matter of not knowing the material. I felt like I had to cut things short to get as much ground covered as possible. I did answer everything, but I know there were things I should have addressed and covered that I didn't. Oh well.

I now have 3 weeks to either contemplate all of the above, or just relax and not even think about it. I'll probably do the latter, though I do want to post a commentary on the first year of law school sometime. I'm more feeling the need to relax and unwind. The one drink I had after the exam with my study partner last night was not enough to do it. A nice start, but.....

To focus on something positive, besides actually finishing my first full year of law school, my darling pink denim Louis Vuitton handbag (that I bought as my reward for doing so) gets to make its first public appearance today. I'm going out in a few minutes, and it is already filled and ready to go! Ok, so it's something silly, but at least it takes my mind off of other things.

Monday, May 08, 2006

The Last Day

At the end of today, I will have finished my first year of law school. I don't have time now to give my overall view and impressions of it (will save that for later this week). I have my Contracts final tonight. Normally, even though the exams are scheduled for 3 hours, the professors make them a little shorter. Since the exams are at night (and I am NOT a night person, when it comes to studying, reading, etc.), any bit shorter helps me. My Torts exam was 2.5 hours, and Civ Pro was 2 hours 40 minutes. From the old exams I've been studying, it appears that tonight's exam will be 3 hours and 15 minutes. I likely won't be leaving the parking lot until 10pm! Ugh! Nice way to zap any last bit of energy we might be having.

I'm not feeling as confident as I would like going into this. I feel like I know the material, but the volume is so much, it is overwhelming. I just hope I can recall things as fast as I know I will need to. We are going to have 2 essay questions (each worth 30% of our class grade), and 10 short answer questions (basically, like a mini essay, usually covering just one issue- each worth 3% of our class grade). In working on old tests, I think I have decided the better strategy is to do the 2 essays first (while timing myself to make sure I keep each to one hour), and then do the short answers. The short answers could easily take more time, and I'd rather lose out on finishing a couple of those, than part of an essay, if I have to. And SofTest has a timer, but time increments on it are not as conducive to starting with the short answers (they don't have a 6 minute option). It would be too frustrating to me to start with that section, give myself only 5 minutes a question. I'd rather start with something that made me feel like I was accomplishing more. Anyway, that's my thoughts on test order.

I need to get back to studying. Good luck to all my fellow law students, especially my fellow first years! Here's hoping we see each other on the other side!

Friday, May 05, 2006

What an excellent verse for today!

If you read this before midnight (EST, I think), check out the daily verse in the right hand column. Such a great one, and so very true! :)

If you checked this later, look at Philippians 4:6-7.

More PINK

Hubby went to Vegas for a trade show this week. He knows I have a weakness for Louis Vuitton and Emilio Pucci, both of which have stores in Vegas. He likes to surprise me, so he brought me home a darling pink Pucci handbag! I wish I could post a picture, but eluxury doesn't carry the entire Pucci line (and I like to borrow their great photos). If you know Pucci, you recognize it when you see it though. Kind of mod designs and colors. Anyway, this one is a great size (not too big or too small), and matches my new laptop bag (which of course, is pink) perfectly.

And, as of Monday, my pink LV gets to make its debut, so I guess I will get to switch between my two pink purses this summer!

Thanks to hubby for always keeping me so spoiled!

Thursday, May 04, 2006

Almost done

I had my CivPro final tonight. This is my weakest subject. To continue on to the second year at my school, you need to have a 65 average, with at least a 55 in every class. In the other classes, that won't be a problem for me. But here, I just am hoping for at least that 55. I do feel better about this test than I did the Feb midterm, and I got better than a 55 on that, so I'm hoping that means I'm ok. I think my grade will likely be in the 55-70 range.

While I was all wired after finished the Torts final, I'm just drained after this one. I tried to go into it being confident, but I did get nervous while answering the questions. It seemed like, at first, it was taking me too long to answer them. Then, I finished, and it seemed like I had too much time left with nothing more to say. Ugh. I am just happy to be done with that class forever. Even if I didn't pass, there is nothing anyone could do to make me sit through that (and the other first year classes) again for an entire year. NO freaking way!

My last final is on Monday night. That one, Contracts, will be hard because of the volume of material, not necessarily the concepts. I'm going to give myself a little break for a few hours tomorrow to do some errands, and then get to studying for that.

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

This is a first

I did NOT wake up last night, remembering something I should have put on my Torts final. Either I totally missed stuff and didn't realize it, or I hit everything I should have, but just skimped on how much I analyzed it. I did finish 15 minutes early, but I don't like to put a lot of "clutter" in my answers. I like to keep it pretty clean without much in the way of extraneous comments. I'm anxious to see my score (though it will be 4 weeks), as I think I did very well....and I say that after a good night's sleep and an entire day to think about it!

I should enjoy the confidence now, as I don't expect to feel this way after CivPro's final. At least Contracts will be a better note to end on. Hard to believe a week from now it will all be over. What am I going to do with 3 weeks of free time until summer school starts???

Monday, May 01, 2006

Torts is FINISHED

If you ask me how I think I did on the Torts final tonight, I would have to say I think I kicked ass. Not a very classy response I suppose, but honestly, my first reaction. The final was 2.5 hours long. I spent 1 hour on the first question (defamation and intentional tort), 1:15 on the second (strict liability/negligence), and spent about 10 minutes reviewing before uploading my answers a few minutes early. As a gauge to the length of my answers, my answer for the first question was about 8000 characters, but the answer to the second was over 12,000 characters.

There was a lot in the questions to address, including a few little tricky ones, like Summers v. Tice causation in the second question, a bona fide purchaser issue and mental incapacity defense in the first question. I'm sure there are things I forgot (guaranteed I will wake up in the middle of the night and remember them). But at this point, I wouldn't be surprised if I got a 90 on that final. To be more realistic, I will assume my grade is probably in the 80s.

According to the professor, the grades are due by May 30th. She thought they would be online on the 31st. What appears online will be our final class grade, NOT the final exam grade. We can then go in and see and copy our final exam, but cannot keep the original.

Honestly, as I told my study partner the other day, I don't get nervous or anxious about taking tests. If anything, it's more kind of excited, because it's my time to show off what I know. I'm not the type that learns by having to talk in class/confirm my understanding that way. I hear, process, and understand on my own. So when I finally get the chance to show that I have listened, learned and KNOW, I want the chance, and look forward to it.

Anyway, I'm feeling VERY good about my performance on Torts. Now on to CivPro on Thursday.

To All My Fellow Law Students....

on all of your exams. This is our chance, after a year, to show what we've learned. So relax, be confident, and show it off! :)